6 Steps to Increase Your Savings

by TTMK on May 15, 2012 · 0 comments

Growing your nest egg doesn’t have to be complicated. I’m not saying it’s easy, as I know full well how hard it can be to make money and save it.  That being said, it seems as if some basic principles, if followed with discipline, can help somebody increase their accumulation of money.

Here are 6 steps to increasing savings and growing your nest egg:

  1. Protect and grow your income stream.  I suspect that many people focus on savings, or might take for granted that they will have income forever. Well, it doesn’t work that way, and it’s not automatic. We can’t save money if we don’t have any money to be saved in the first place! Thus, it’s important to focus on one’s career, business, or whatever sources of income there are.
  2. Understand the difference between wants and needs.  Okay, so once you have income, you have to decide how to spend it, right? This is where it’s important to be able to distinguish between what you want and what you need. That dream sports car? It’s something you want. Do you need it? No, you could do just fine with a high quality used Toyota!
  3. Budget to have expenses less than income.  This might entail some planning on your part, but it’s important to take some time to assess your expenses and determine how to make such a budget work.
  4. Prepare for the unexpected.  Sometimes, things can happen to us. Job loss, health issues, divorce, accidents, or bad luck can find their way into the lives of people everywhere.  Now, it’s tough to prepare for everything and there are some we just don’t want to plan for. However, the odds are that some negative things do happen to many people.  Save accordingly.
  5. Track Expenses.  By documenting and recording your expenses, you can take the guesswork out of where your money is going.  You’ll be able to figure out where any problems may be creeping up, and how you can adjust spending to meet your savings goals.
  6. Set goals.  By setting savings goals, which can be a part of long-term financial and life goals, we can have a target to aim for.  This can really get us going in the right direction, thinking about how reaching certain savings goals will help us in the big picture.

Taken together, these steps can help set the foundation for the long quest for financial freedom!

What do you think?

Do you follow any of these steps? Which ones?

What other suggestions do you have for people to increase their savings?

 

Be a Bridesmaid and Go Broke?

by TTMK on May 10, 2012 · 11 comments

This is a post about being a bridesmaid, but I have to admit up front that I have never been one. And never will. Which is a good thing, because I’m male!

With that disclaimer out of the way, I have to say that I came across an article on CNN that caught my eye regarding the cost of being a bridesmaid.    It turns out that it’s more expensive than I would have thought!

Apparently, it’s enough to be a big financial expense for some women.  The article found a source that indicated that the average cost of being a bridesmaid was nearly $1,700. Yes, that’s right. Almost $1,700.  For some people, that’s like a mortgage payment, or even more!

Now, I have to wonder what goes through the mind of somebody who is asked to be a bridesmaid.  On the one hand, it has to be an honor, if it’s a friend with whom you are particularly close as well as happy for regarding her nuptials.  On the other hand, by saying yes you sign up for a very substantial expense.  Of course if you say no, you risk irreparable harm to the friendship.

I recall getting ready to ask a friend to be in my wedding, way back when, when I was rejected.  Actually, I told him about the dates of the wedding, and he immediately said that he wouldn’t be able to make it.  This was somebody I had known for many years, and I thought his excuse of preparing for grad school finals was weak.  I played it cool, and was nice to him, saying no problem. Afterward, I got more than a little annoyed as I thought about how that conversation went down.  Shocking as it may seem, fair or not, I more or less ended the friendship after that.  Looking back, it was probably a bit silly.

So yes, it might not be fair, but people can get overly sensitive about wedding related stuff.  Realistically, this applies more to brides than grooms from my observations, despite what I shared about myself.  Bottom line is that if a good friend asks you, how do you say no?

To me, with that type of expense, maybe it’s time to tone down the wedding and make it less expensive. Additionally, what about the idea that the people hosting the wedding should be paying for a substantial amount of these expenses? I mean, asking someone to play a role in a wedding that’s yours, yet making them pay and arm and a leg for the privilege of doing so, seems a bit off.  But again, it seems to be the custom.

My Questions for You

What went through your mind when you were asked by someone to be a bridesmaid? Did expenses factor in?

Also, when asking someone to be a bridesmaid, did you think of how much they would be spending?

What do you think of the notion that the people hosting the wedding should help defray a large percentage of the costs of people in the wedding party?

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